The Canvas of Reflection: A Creative Woman at almost 68
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Here is another Musing from me…
The Canvas of Reflection: A Creative Woman at almost 68
In this beautiful and colorful tapestry of life, certain threads shimmer with the quiet wisdom of years lived. At almost 68, as a creative woman, I find myself drawn more and more to these reflective moments. The urgency of past decades softens, replaced by a gentle invitation to pause, to breathe, and to truly consider the next brushstrokes on my personal canvas, the next dance steps on my Caravan’s journey, the next words for my poetry book of Life Shorts!
It is not a withdrawal, but rather a purposeful recalibration, a time to appreciate the journey so far and to consciously shape the chapters yet to unfold. That is a mouthful of thoughts!
Honoring the Legacy of Creativity
For many of us that are in my stratosphere, creativity has been a lifelong companion. It has manifested in various forms: perhaps through dancing, painting, writing, music, or the intricate art of living itself. Now, at this time in my life, there is an opportunity to revisit these passions with a fresh perspective. Past works take on new meanings, and the successes and struggles alike contribute to a rich narrative of self-discovery.
It’s a time to honor this legacy, to acknowledge the persistent flame that has fueled creativity through the years.I have done so over the years, and have talked about it with friends and students and tribe mates. But that conversation doesn’t end.
Reclaiming Time for Reflection
I have found myself, even in semi-retirement, so full up with day-to-day life. Work continues, Play gets more important! By choice of course, often not wanting to say NO, but saying YES to more adventures and possibilities.
In this bustle and hustle of daily life and even often just surviving, my time for reflection often takes a backseat. Yet, as some of you know, it is in these quiet moments of introspection that true clarity emerges. For a 67-year-old woman, carving out dedicated time for reflection becomes paramount. It could be through journaling, meditation, long walks, or simply sitting in quiet contemplation. The act of slowing down allows the layers of experience to settle, revealing patterns, insights, and a deeper understanding of one’s own desires and priorities.
These are the things that I coach my clients about repeatedly, and even I find it difficult sometimes. The whirlwind of life!
SO….
“What’s next?” is a question that resonates deeply at this age. Retirement, shifting roles, and changing physical realities may necessitate a reassessment of personal goals. This reflection period becomes an opportunity to explore new avenues for creative expression, to nurture nascent interests, or to deepen existing passions. It is a time to ask:
What truly brings me joy and fulfillment now, these days, as an older woman?
What skills and experiences can be shared with others? What do I have to offer as a crone, a wise woman, a coach, a mentor?
What impact do I want to make in this next phase of life? What do I still want to create?
Finding Joy in Simplicity
The wisdom of age often brings an appreciation for simplicity. This simplicity might manifest in choosing quality over quantity, prioritizing meaningful connections, or finding delight in everyday moments. It’s also about recognizing the inherent beauty in slowing down and savoring the present. For a creative woman, this shift can lead to new artistic inspiration drawn from the subtle nuances of life.
Embracing Change and Growth
I’m not done yet! Even at 67, there is immense potential for growth and evolution. My creative spirit thrives on exploration and new experiences. I don’t sit still for long. This might mean learning a new skill, traveling to unfamiliar places, or engaging in community projects. The focus is not on achieving grand feats but on staying engaged, curious, and open to the possibilities that life still offers. What do I always say? To be a possibilitarian
Sharing Wisdom and Mentoring
With years of experience comes a wealth of knowledge and wisdom. One fulfilling aspect of this stage can be the opportunity to share this with others. Mentoring younger generations, participating in workshops, or simply offering a listening ear can be deeply rewarding. It creates a sense of purpose and contributes to the continuity of creative traditions.
One of the reasons I became a professional coach, among my many careers. I love to see the expansion and possibilities of others. To share the ways to get over the hard roads, to bring in more ease, to honor and celebrate my mentees, to guide through the often hiding and dark path. To help others shine their light. Illumination…
We are here to be seen and heard. To share and stand up, to shout and brag, and to inspire others as well as learn from others. To be in some sort of community for connection, for support, for love, for pleasure, for joy.
The Ongoing Journey
Ultimately, taking time to relax and reflect at 67 is not about arriving at a final destination. It is about embracing the ongoing journey, the continuous process of growth and discovery. It is about acknowledging the past, savoring the present, and looking toward the future with a blend of wisdom, grace, and creative passion. The canvas remains open, and the potential for new masterpieces is boundless.
I’m not done yet!
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What’s coming up?
I’ve taken the Substack plunge to share some pieces of poetry from my upcoming 5th book!
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