A friend of mine mentioned to me the other day that I had gotten really good at Marketing myself!
Well, Yes, I have. It has taken years of experiences, mistakes and wins, often wanting to share too much or not enough. Plus I have gotten all kinds of help over the years, from my own coaches, my virtual assistants, and lots of courses and studying. I’ve got a lot of tools under my belt!
But here is the thing, I have had to learn how to market my vision, my desires, my dreams. To reach my people, my tribe, my circle, my clients, my students. That’s the key here. So I can share with you what I love, what I do, what I am really good at. My niche in the world, my niche in my coaching practice.
My vision as your coach is to help you envision all of your possibilities. What I do is help you to transform your life and step into your magic, your creative zone of genius, to clarify what is next for you. I love to mix the practical with the woo, a bit of witchy content, to reconnect with all aspects of yourself as a woman who is desiring some sort of change, whether that be as an entrepreneur, a teacher, a creative, all aspects of you expanding in your world.
To be visionaries of your own life, to show up and participate, and own it, which will then also help to make our world a better place.
When I do my work, my coaching, my teaching, my speaking, I want to take you on a journey to make changes for your creative dreams, in your business and personal life. I give you the tools to rewrite your story and step up into your creative zone of genius. To fall back in love with yourself and explore your possibilities.
To be a possibilitarian!
So when you see many of my posts, of inspiration, and ideas and questioning you, I am marketing my vision, for you. Marketing is not a bad word. It is part of having a business, of showing up in my work world and reaching out to you, to those who resonate with my messages, and understand how they can also move forward, even perhaps working with me as your coach! It’s a beautiful skill to learn if you want to be successful in your vision and your business.
So thank you my friend, for acknowledging my growth too. I love to share in my growth as well as yours. We are all in this together! And thanks for continuing on our journey together. Love that you are here.
Women’s Wisdom on Wednesdays... A FB live at 8 am every Wednesday, right. here… short chats for inspiration and ideas… https://www.facebook.com/paulettecoach Join me Wednesday, and you can always catch the replay!
Finding Your Everyday Magic: A Journey Home to the Soul
In a world often filled with chaos and the mundane, it is easy to forget the beauty that surrounds us.
Many women find themselves overwhelmed, anxious, and exhausted by daily demands, hiding that anxiety behind a “busy” lifestyle while quietly losing their joy. But what if you could learn to see the magic in the everyday? What if you could find wonder in the ordinary?
I always say to myself, that I want to live lit up every day!
To live “lit up” is to shine your light and intentionally create your own everyday magic. Magic is not something you have to go out and find; it is already here, waiting for you to see it through a shift in energy and perspective.
Our perception of reality is largely shaped by our perspective. When we choose to see the world through a lens of positivity and gratitude, we open ourselves up to a whole new realm of magic. Even the smallest moments—the twinkle of holiday lights or the magic of a leaf unfurling—can become extraordinary when we take the time to appreciate them. Heck yeah!
Soulful Practices for Everyday Magic
Creating magic requires moving from “peak performance” to “embodied presence”. To be totally present, to be in your body, to stop and listen. It is about returning to yourself and rediscovering confidence, vitality, and joy through connection and movement. And movement is so important on all levels of our being, spiritually, emotionally, physically…
Move Your Body: Moving the body is a major factor in raising energy. Whether it is dancing around your kitchen, practicing yoga, or a bellydance class, movement rocks the spirit and helps you get unstuck.
Connect with Nature: Spending time in nature is a powerful way to calm the mind and open up to the beauty of the world. Make it a daily non-negotiable. I have to go for a walk every morning with my dog and just breath and look around.
Cultivate Gratitude: A huge gratitude practice is essential for living lit up. Make a habit of expressing gratitude for the good things in your life, big and small. Journaling every morning or evening is a great practice, even just for 5 minutes to think about gratitude.
Embrace Creativity: Express yourself through art, dance, music, or writing. Creativity allows you to tap into your inner self and explore new possibilities. What are you wanting to create?
Practice Mindfulness: Stay present and appreciate the moment. Let your breath become an anchor—steady, kind, and alive. A great practice is to do some breathing exercises.
Reclaiming Your Magic in Midlife
As we age, our desires and priorities change. Midlife is a powerful season to reconnect with your body and rewrite your story. It is a time to release the “invisible workload” of to-do lists and focus on what is truly important now.
By shifting your mindset from what was to what is now important, you can step into a new dream life filled with freedom and creative flow.
Joining the Circle
Magic is often amplified when we gather in presence. A women’s circle provides a safe haven for sharing, healing, and tapping into collective feminine wisdom. It is a space where you can be seen, heard, and supported as you navigate your own transformation.
And yes, I have a new virtual women’s circle mastermind starting in May, to be revealed soon! Stepping into your next chapter!
Are you ready to reclaim your energy and joy? Now is the time to find your rhythm, ignite your flames, and step into your everyday magic.
I’d love to know what you are wanting to transform. Times are so different now, and your transformation, as a woman, is taking a new twist. Feminine creativity to step into your new vision, so you can create that magic for your whole being!
I am here to support women in midlife and mid-career who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from themselves during times of transition. Through gentle, embodied practices and soulful reflection, I help you slow down, reconnect with your body and inner wisdom, and move forward with clarity and confidence — without pressure, hustle, or forcing change. My work creates space to listen inward, release what no longer fits, and step into the next chapter with presence, trust, and a renewed sense of possibility. Ohhhh, how juicy is that? What does that feel like to you? Freedom, change, possibilities? A newer awareness? This is not about becoming someone new — it’s about coming home to who you already are. I’ve not only got lovely strategy sessions for you (schedule that call with me now_ https://calendly.com/paulettecoach/steppingintoyournextchapterstrategycall
but watch for updates on my next women’s gathering coming up, about Finding your Everyday Magic, to guide you to step into your next chapter…
For today, though love, I want you to remind yourself to see the world through a lens of positivity and gratitude, so you can open yourself up to a whole new realm of magic. I’ve got you love, I see you, and I love you…
I have a new weekly series called Women’s Wisdom on Wednesdays... a FB live at 8 am every Wednesday, right. here… short chats for inspiration and ideas… https://www.facebook.com/paulettecoach join me Wednesday, and you can always catch the replay! ~~~~~ And I have started a new poetry reading weekly called The Muse Sessions... I read to you some of my new poetry ( or perhaps others too)…enjoy… when the muse beckons me!
I’ve always been a strong proponent for making change… taking a new path, trying something different, stepping outside of the box (that only we create anyway), but moving forward with intention and focus and commitment and curiosity!
Well, how does one make a change?
Action Creates Change
Intentional action steps further into your personal dreams and desires. Because seasons shift, technology advances, and societies evolve, always, sometimes not the way we want, but they do.
While change can occur passively through external forces, the most profound and lasting transformations often stem from that deliberate action I’m talking about. “Action Creates Change” is not merely a statement but a fundamental principle that governs personal growth, societal progress, and also global evolution. Intentional movement is the catalyst for transformation at all levels, personal to global!
Individual Transformation
On a personal level, as a lifestyle coach, my focus is helping guide you to take that intentional and strategic action because it is the driving force behind self-improvement, growth, and expansion.
Thoughts become words, become things. Wishing for change is dreaming; taking steps toward it is active and creates those changes. Whether you want to learn a new skill, adopt a healthier lifestyle, or break a bad habit, each action taken propels you closer to your desired outcome.
Attention, Intention, Action!
Baby steps, baby! Small, consistent actions add up over time, and can lead to significant personal transformation. Know what I mean? Perhaps you want to tone up your body, so consistently dedicating 30 minutes to exercise each day will lead to that healthier you, and you can see the change.
I just did this for one month with a trainer, waking up and going to the gym every morning at 6 am to do a 30 minute workout and I loved the tiny transformations in my body, and also in my mind and spirit, because I had committed to it, because I wanted to make a change, and I hired someone to hold me accountable and give me steps to make the change.
Another work idea: Prioritizing your workload, naming 1-3 things daily, will help you get things done more efficiently and will make a happier you! (Have you seen my masterclass on making your MAP, Magic Action Plan? Check it out here: https://vimeo.com/492293124/82c0963690)
When you show up and participate in your own desires and well being, you will also create the Ripple Effect, and I love that! People get inspired by seeing others doing and living their dreams.
Every action, no matter how small, creates a ripple effect. An act of kindness can brighten someone’s day, inspiring them to pay it forward. Someone having an art show can inspire others to keep on creating. A dance performance can get someone motivated to start dancing again. A local community initiative can serve as a model for other communities facing similar challenges. These ripple effects demonstrate how action extends beyond its immediate impact, influencing and inspiring change in ways that may not be immediately apparent.
Overcoming Obstacles to Action
While the importance of action is clear, taking it can be challenging.
What are you afraid of? Fear of failure, uncertainty about the outcome, and lack of resources can all hinder action. However, overcoming these obstacles is crucial for making the changes you wish to see in the world, and in your own life! Breaking down large goals into smaller, manageable steps can make action less daunting. Asking for help, like I did in hiring a trainer, and seeking support from others can provide motivation and resources..
“Action Creates Change” is a powerful principle that underscores the importance of intentional effort in bringing about transformation.
Simply stated. Change requires action – the conscious decision to move from intention to reality.
By recognizing the power of our intentional actions and overcoming the fears that can often stop us, we can become participants of those changes in our lives and in the world around us.
Each baby step we take contributes to the ongoing process of our evolution and expansion, in ourselves, our community, and even globally. Ultimately, the future is shaped not by passive dreaming, but by active participation and the unwavering commitment to create the change we wish to see.
So love, what changes do you want to see, to take, to have? And can you commit to yourself so that you can feel freaking great about your continuing journey?
And as always, I am here for you, as your cheerleader and coach, to help you envision, clarity, and manifest your desires. If you want that strategy session with me, a free call to help you decide on your next steps, just click here to set up a time for a phone call with me. I call this your Finding Your New Voice, session and I’d love to help you create your next steps for change.
Thanks for being here,
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Join us for our weekly writing class… this session, focusing on the Symbols of Our Stories Everyone has a story… let dive into yours… From the Body to the Page… A Journaling Exploration – Starting July 3rd, 2025, Thursdays, 2:30-4:00 pm PST on Zoom for 8 weeks… We journal together in our virtual sacred circle, weekly, With prompts, stories, and magical sharing with support… This is YOUR time to check in, deep dive, enjoy play with words and sensations, dreams and visions… Diving into the symbols, meanings, magical moments, of what makes you, you, with stories, characters, poetic ramblings, and whatever else wants to come through and from you… from the body to the page… ~~~~~~~ Thursdays, 2:30-4:00 pm PST on Zoom, 8 weeks Translate your heart’s vision, your mind’s eye, and your soul’s desires into a visual language that reflects your spirit! Thoughts become words become things. Symbols of our Stories When we claim our stories, the objects, the visions, the values, when we rewrite them, when we give them life, we can liberate ourselves, see our own thoughts become manifest. The downloads of creation. When we show up for ourselves, give ourselves the time to be with what is inside, and release from the body to the page, we create our own magic. That’s what our journaling/writing class is all about — exploration, play time, self-care and self-reflection! And in a magical powerful creative virtual circle, with sacred space and shared stories. Your journals are a precious vessel for you to unveil, reveal, release, develop what is wanting to come through you, what you are dying to say, maybe not out loud, but out of your head! Bring your journals, your fav writing utensils. Plus we have a private FB group in which to chat and share our writings… (make sure I have your FB name) Each class is recorded so if you can’t be there in person, you can always get each week’s replay… Register here… ~~~~~~~~~~~
Monday Mojo and Motivation…. Giving you some pep talk, some ideas, and some momentum to get your week started and step into your abundance and all the things that will help you to expand and grow and live the life you desire!!! Join us over at Dance with Desire, my private women’s group on FB and get ready for our summer FREE Monday morning journaling and coaching class! Starting July 7th, 8 am PST… Monday mornings through August! https://www.facebook.com/groups/Dance with Desire
Dancing with Your Desires: My Virtual Women’s Group for the New Year
Hello gorgeous!
As we enter a new year, many of us are filled with a sense of hope and possibility. We may have resolutions to improve our health, our relationships, our abundance, or our careers. But what about our desires? Desires, in all of those categories, and then some!
Desires are often seen as something that should be suppressed or controlled. But in the women’s group “Dancing with Your Desires,” I believe that desires are a vital part of our lives. They are a source of energy and creativity, and they can help us to live more fulfilling lives.
However, sometimes they have gotten blocked, or we have fallen into complacency, or feel like we don’t have time, or are not worthy. That list can go on. I want to release those old thought patterns, habits, and beliefs. You, my friend, are worth so much more. And we want to love the life we are living, NOW. At this age, at this time, today, as we move into the new year.
In our weekly online group, we will explore our desires in a safe, sacred, and supportive environment. We will learn to identify our desires, to understand their origins, and to find ways to express them in healthy and productive ways. To get clear, and to make your MAP, your Magic Action Plan, to you can truly take action
We will also explore the ways in which our desires can be connected to our fears and insecurities. We will learn to work with these fears and insecurities so that they no longer hold us back from living our lives to the fullest. To release, and rewrite!
“Dancing with Your Desires” is for a group for women who are ready to embrace their desires and to live more authentic and fulfilling lives. Are you ready to join us?
We meet every Monday at 4:00pm PST (for an hour), on Zoom, and it will be recorded if you have to miss. We also have a private women’s group on FB to connect with me and with each other… AND I am offering this as a pay what you can… I haven’t offered this type of group for several years, but felt the calling to offer this to you so you can join without the feeling of the I can’t afford to invest in myself feeling.
Check it out, 4 options, pick the one that truly and honestly resonates with you, so we can move forward into your abundance in 2025
Register here, we start Monday, don’t wait. This is for you and will soooo juicy, divine, special, and magical! I am here for you… I’ll be sending out the weekly topic info shortly… I’m excited to connect with you.
Everyone who registers also gets a FREE Pdf of my latest book, From Soulless Job to Creative Abundance!
BONUS: The first five women to register today, also get a complimentary 30 minute coaching session with me.
Blessings for a magical weekend, and see you soon!
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